I was having a bad moment as a dad yesterday evening. Amanda was at her sister's bachelorette party, and I was flying solo. I was watching "The Smurfs" movie with the kids, and there was a scene where Neil Patrick Harris' character observes a young couple with their toddler son walking between them, after which the dad picks him up and kisses him. His character then realizes how despite life's frustrations he is content with the anticipation of being a father (or something like that).
As for me, I had gotten frustrated with my own kids during dinner, especially with Emily and Clara for taking so long to eat their soup. I'm sure there were other things too, such as annoying noises, repeated jokes (for the 100th time), and who knows what else. Now, watching this scene unfold on the couch (after we finally finished our dinner), I was thinking about how all I do is nag my kids and get annoyed with them. I am a no-fun, killjoy of a dad. I suck.
Just then, Emily came over to me and gave me a great big hug, and Clara followed her big sister to do the same. As both of them were bear hugging me Emily said "Your daughters sure do love you", after which I relied "and I sure do love my daughters."
She moved back to look at me and said "Dad, I know you get frustrated with us sometimes, but God is still proud of you." Then they went back to watching the movie like nothing happened, and I sat there with my mouth on the floor. Only God knew how much I needed to hear that just then. So thank you God, and also thanks to my daughter Emily too.
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Wow! That is amazing, Mike! That does seem like a love touch from God, and it's so awesome to know your daughters love you that much.
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